💍 Your Day, Your Way – Weddings That Break the Mould (and the Rules)🤟🏼
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✨Let’s be real for a sec…
Planning a wedding in 2025 feels like juggling a Pinterest board, a group chat full of unsolicited opinions, and a spreadsheet that makes you cry a little inside.
Everyone’s got something to say — family, social media, that one friend who "just wants to help" (we know they mean well)...
But here’s your permission slip: you don’t have to do any of it.
At Preloved Planning, we’re all about helping you throw out the rulebook and designing a wedding that actually feels like you.
💡 Do It For You (Not the 'Gram)
Tradition is lovely — if it means something to you.
But when it starts to feel like a performance for someone else’s expectations, it’s time to take a breath.
◦ Don't eat cake? Skip that whole thing out!
◦ Prefer trainers to heels? We love that energy.
◦ Not a fan of formal vows? Write your own, or sing them, or do them privately.
Want to dance down the aisle with your partner to cheesy 90s tunes? Please do.
This is your love story. It deserves a celebration that reflects that — not one copied from Instagram highlights or done “for tradition’s sake.”
🎯 Spend Where It Matters (To You)
There’s a lot of noise about “must-haves” — matching pyjamas, expensive favours, chair Sashes, the works.
But truthfully? You don’t need any of it if it’s not your vibe. Instead Skip the things that don’t excite you
📸 Put that money toward an incredible photographer (for the memories you'll actually care about)
🍟 Serve cheesy chips at dinner if that’s your love language
☕️ Have a late night coffee bar
💃 Ditch the sit-down meal and have a silent disco in the woods
Your budget isn’t for other people to spend. It’s for your joy.
🌿 Preloved is Personal
We specialise in preloved styling, hire items, and sustainable wedding options — not because it’s trendy (although it is), but because we care & it’s intentional.
Why buy brand new everything when you can:
Hire meaningful, character-filled decor
Reduce waste and still have beautiful details
Save money to spend on the experiences you’ll remember forever
Not have heaps of stuff left over post wedding, to try and shift.
✌🏼Personalised doesn’t have to mean expensive. It just has to say you.
💬 Real Talk: Family Pressure is a Thing
We know — the aunties, the parents and the “but what about...” Brigade 🚩
Listen: You can love and respect your people and still make decisions that are true to you and not them- Don't be afraid to say NO!
Set boundaries early. Include who you want. Explain that you’re doing things differently — kindly, but firmly. You don’t owe anyone a cookie-cutter wedding if it doesn’t make you happy.
🌈 Bottom Line: You’re Allowed to Do Things Differently
You don’t have to justify your choices.
You don’t need a reason to say “nah” to the things that don’t spark joy.
You can absolutely walk (or dance) into your wedding day feeling like the best version of you — not someone else’s idea of what a bride/groom should be.
🛋 Need a Hype Team?
That’s what we’re here for. We’re your creative sidekicks, chaos wranglers, and styling soulmates. We’ll help you craft a day full of feeling, not fluff — where every detail, whether preloved or handmade, actually means something.
Let’s make it personal. Let’s make it chill. Let’s make it yours.
(And yes, we’ll be cheering you on in the background while you eat cheesy chips in a secondhand sparkly jumpsuit.)
📩 Ready to Break the Rules Beautifully?
Drop us a message or stalk us on Instagram. Let’s build a day you’ll love — not just a day that looks good in photos. (Although trust us, it’ll look gorgeous too.)